Society to the decompression to enjoy sex passion

Female: men don't think as long as each other some like it hot, coupled with his efforts to seduce, two people will be able to ensure the enjoyment of sex. In fact, like to be kissed, caress woman, does not mean that she will be able to enjoy their sexual relationship. How big is the pressure before her unsnap, perhaps you have not had experience. Therefore, if you can before you get undressed, more about her feelings, I believe that your relationship will be closer!

Pressure 1: inferiority unsnap to build pressure

Before the woman in the face of sex, first bad face is worried about the pressure build, can't make partner satisfaction, or even destroyed the original relationship. But in real life, body, after all, not many people are graceful like a star, so you must be to set up to build confidence, accept yourself.

Ease methods: for women the anxiety and stress, men must be given a positive evaluation and encouragement. Men must understand that sex is not only physical and sensual desires, also have a feeling from the sharing if himself was not satisfied with this mood can be shared with the women, care from, to relieve the pressure arising from the appearance.

2 pressure: the pressure caused by the fear of sexual intercourse

"Make love not us only if you do not feel comfortable. "This is when many handkerchief talk secret boudoir, frequently mentioned topics. Due to the lack of sexual education, sexual knowledge of so many people, come from movies, television, or novel. In the world, is very beautiful, but the fact is that not all human experience is true; therefore, when everybody in the mouth, there will be sex not only romantic, or even painful. Some people believe that, sex is just routine, or even simply to satisfy men's behavior. After you have the idea that, when women with sexual partners to go to bed, will produce feelings of fear and disgust, would certainly do not have a complete, pleasures of sexual behaviour.

Pressure 3: dislike for organ

Comics of the white birds in Li Zi, son of actress Bai Niaoli both faces, or figure is first class, also has good fantasy to love, to go to bed, but she felt organ ugly as sin, and her first appearance completely unworthy of the great beauties, so disillusioned. Although comedy plots, but very vivid expression of the concept of young women for sexual intercourse is full of contradictions. This organ in ugly, and the concept of think sex is painful, prevented many women from Frank to enjoy the sex.

Ease methods: women on sex preconceived concepts or stereotypes, if deeply rooted, still be of mental disorders. Considerate and understanding at this point the other half, communication with the parties, will be the key to solve. Men to relieve women's fear of sex and look forward to, required to know what women expect sex is, women disarmed and forget doubts on sex and accept women's boot, always ask the woman feeling, makes two people after sex, making love endless left.

Male: men "a faint sluggish" reason is nothing but fear not, and the sick, or have experienced the unpleasant experience, often unwittingly makes the mind thing of the past to reproduce, interfere with sex.　　　Then, you on was appropriate to performance care, especially to has patience to accompany he spent this paragraph embarrassing period; so, recommendations you may wish to first through non-sexual intercourse, other close way, to arouse he of confidence, and filled copies let he feel you on each other close relationship of pleasure, even active show own sexy of side, believe he soon on will Shun its natural to show treasures has!　　　Pressure 1: on own sexual ability produced suspected worry you does not meet of pressure under investigation, Taiwan men General are thought to erectile dysfunction is long to let female meet, also thought must to let female has is strongly of reaction, to display he "is line, and is strong", thus subconscious worry each other because craving dissatisfaction, produced affair, results do with do with on soft off has, then how stimulation also climbing does not up. Ease methods: If we fail many times, you don't have to rush to help him recover. Both sides rest first, let him have a chance to breath; you can use other methods to express intimate relationships, let him know you are really satisfied with your relationship, rebuilding his confidence.

Pressure 2: fear live up to the you of kindness seeking good anxious of pressure Dang you worry he of pressure too large, may will said: "doesn't matter, anyway sexual intercourse not most important of, most important of is soul of agreement sth sth", or said: "once no no relationship, next then to sth sth" but you must does not know, you of kind comfort, is is he maximum of pressure sources. Relieving method: If your lovers have failed experience of sexual intercourse, you best not encouraged is for words to comfort or encourage him, and when the next sleep together, and do not try to want to use more exciting ways to help him. Because the men had failed, to prove that he still rows, often secretly used the most stimulating way confirmed that they are not a problem, so if you take a similar approach will be back in his mind is not a pleasant experience.　You should take indirect of stimulation way, first not directly touch touch or indicates that, can with wear sexy underwear, and bite the root of the ear type of talk way let he distraction, indirect of sensual pleasures stimulation, for had failed of he will will more has attractive, you also can row room Shi full expression you of joy, see you meet of expression, heard you pleasure of sound, on he speaking is best of treatment. "ELLE gender health"

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